Love your partner and still want the relationship to work? then you should prove that you are willing to go through test just to get his or her trust back, because if not then dont expect your relationship to last. Here are some ways to help you achieve your partner’s trust again.
1. Show your partner that you care – once you have done your mistake, it would be hard to gain the trust that your partner gave to you again. It is not just like a gift that you can give or take anytime you want to, because trust is earned and if you want to bring it back again, then you should do something and show to your partner that you really care about him or her.
2. Do something and prove that you already regret it – doing something that would show your regrets of what you did would be the best solution to that, regardless of your mistakes. When you know how to express and prove that you regret those mistakes, your partner will be able to accept it as long as you are sincere enough with your sorry. Never leave your partner hanging and let him or her fill the spots because you will never gain the trust and love that he or she gave you again.
3. Never let him or her feel that if you have a chance, you are going to do it again – If you are given a second chance, then make the most of it and dont just stand there thinking for another plan to cheat. Keep in mind that you are now on your edge of breaking up, so stand up as his or her partner and never do the same mistake again. You may not gain back the trust right away because you failed your partner but always remember that time can heal any wounds, so be patient.
4. Spend more time than the usual – if you havent spent some time for him or her before, then make a difference and show that you have more time for your partner. Let him or her see that you have changed and that you care more about her than before. In this way, he or she will be able to know if you are on your way to cheating again or not, because the more time you spend with your partner, it means you are not doing stupid outside and you are serious with him or her this time.
5. Talk to your partner about it and let her know that you are sincere – sharing each other side, especially yours would definitely solve the issue, but dont expect that he or she is going to give you the same trust as before. But at least you are still given a chance and you should be thankful enough.
6. Ask for second chance, let her feel and see that you learned your lesson – second chance is very important for you to gain back his or her trust this time, because you are given one more time to solve your mistake and your partner is expecting of how are you going to react about it, or thinking of what would you do to next just to cheat. It simply means you are on under surveillance.
Whatever your mistake is, when you did a mistake it will always be a mistake in your partners eyes. But if you make a valid reason for it and ask for another chance by talking sincerely or by expressing yourself and tell your partner the reason why you did it, then you would probably get your second chance but the trust would not be gain that soon. It takes time.